Category: hardship


The Perfect Road Trip

So the Flames come home from a perfect road trip, winning 6-0 to accomplish one of the best records in NHL history. It also marks a comeback of sorts for Miikka Kipprusoff, whose lacklustre goaltending left much to be desired, and the whole hockey club who came from being 13th in the West to sitting pretty at 7th. It was a time where a lot of things changed and when they got home, I’m sure many welcomed them back.

The perfect road trip is a great journey to be in. There comes some preparation before the trip: packing, money, etc. Then there’s getting into the vehicle itself, beginning the drive (or ride) to a far off destination, stopping to see sights and landmarks, roadblocks and detours. We get lost, we get cranky. In the end, once you get to the destination, all your worries seem far away. And when you get home, you’re tired and sleepy, but you can’t help but be excited to share your memories with everyone the next morning.

Like the Flames, I’ve gone on my personal semi-perfect road trip. We’ve done this many times – final exam season. There comes significant preparation before the trip: studying and perpetual distractions, worries and anxiety. Once I got on the ride and finals came, there were a lot of stops along the way, many things that impeded the direction I was headed. Once I did get there, I breathed a sigh of relief, worries gone and I’m back in bed. I’m home again.

Truth is: Life is a perpetual road trip, a collection of many miniature road trips. Each day is a new journey, goals and destinations included. We get tired, bored and even frustrated when we don’t get to where we want to be, but once we get there…Once we get there, we look around, and suddenly things seem the way they should be. We’re surrounded by joy and comfort. Then, as we leave our destination, home becomes a new one. We come in the same door we came out from. We unfold the sheets, climb to the same bed we got out of and we rest. At the end of the day, we’re pretty satisfied with the way God blessed us today.

First Time Baldness

Think about this: you’ve been bald before. You point to yourself and ask, “Me?!”

I reply back, “Yes, you.” There should be no problems when you shave your head again. I mean, it’s not like it’s a totally new experience. You’ve experienced it before. So, why should this time be any different? Girls, you’ve also been bald. So why complain if you’ll lose your precious locks? I digress.

It’s like when it happened almost three weeks ago when some of the Calgary YFC brothers (that includes some “older” brothers) shaved their heads for an important cause. Kudos to you Tram, for being a great friend. A song was later dedicated to you.

So why did some brothers complain about the cold? Probably because it was, I remember one brother telling me that I should wear my bald head proudly (That’s you Mico) and not hide it with a toque. He had a point. I should have been balder than I have to be – by exposing it more. It’s not like people don’t ever see me not bald.

Which brings me to my point today, why do I complain that school is hard? Why do I say that, “I can’t concentrate” or “I can’t study?” Today, I’ve wasted 3 hours by not doing anything. I had a productive morning but a less than stellar afternoon. Could it be that I feel like I’m studying for the first time? It’s not like it’s not happened before. Studying has been a way of life for me for the last 16 years. Why should this finals season be any different?

I come across this as I find myself unable to concentrate, unable to get any work done or even understand what I’m trying to do well on. Doubts stream to my head as feelings of unertainty and fear of failing become normal nuisance thoughts. It’s like the first time a person is bald and the first thing he feels is that it’s cold. This happens for a time until the person gets used to it and eventually overcomes the obstacle of lower temperatures.

Truth is: I guess all I’m trying to do is get out of this rut and be productive. I want to succeed, it’s just that school is not that easy to begin with.

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